Life through the eyes of emery

Communication or trust - which is more important?

This blog is inspired by an old friend of mine whom I'd just refer to as Bonk :) We've been having some pretty in depth chats lately and one of the questions he asked was "What do u think is more important in a relationship - communication or trust?" . That got me thinking..and for me, I would say communication. He agrees as well.

Good communication builds trust. That's the reason. Perhaps I learnt it the hard way, because communicating at a deep level isn't really my skill or hobby for that matter, but I realize now how important it is to be able to communicate. Communicating does not mean just talking about daily events & such, it's more on feelings, thoughts, dreams, goals. Setting these things right builds trust and with trust, there'd be strong relationships.

I also realize that the more open you are to people, they will be more open towards you as well, and that's how you get to know someone better. There's so much behind each person, should we choose to delve beyond the surface :) But do not breach trust, otherwise the consequences are devastating.

So that's my other lesson learnt in life lately. I'd work on my communication skills which is my other new year's resolution besides getting to know my way around KL. I wonder which is more challenging ;)

posted by emeryz @ 8:48 AM